Perhaps, one of the biggest issues we face when chatting with men online is anonymity. Leo Forte, gay porn star extraordinaire, summed it perfectly in a quick interview with one of our DBAD correspondents.
“There’s a big difference between the person you want to be and the person you are”
We as a society need to get over the stigma that we aren’t “enough” and should be presenting ourselves in a way that reflects who we truly are. The only way to get something meaningful out of those apps is to break down the ambiguous barriers we set and be honest about who we are and what we’re looking for. Fill out your profile, be honest, and don’t be a dick!